"You can be hard, Ellen and you can be very judgmental.
And with those two things alone you're gonna make such a mess out of your life.
If I knew that you would be happy, I would close my eyes now. I would. 
It's so much easier to be happy, My love. 
It's so much easier to choose to love the things you have. 
And you have so much . . .  instead of always yearning for what you're missing . . .
or what it is that you're imagining you're missing. 
It is so much more peaceful."

♥